2011 Summer home leave Part 2

More fun in the USA - July & August 2011
Phillip came back to Cincinnati on July 1 for 6 days. Our dear friends, The Mays, came to visit us from Clemson. We had such a great time. The highlight of that visit was a night at Kings Island. We got to stay until midnight! They left on Tuesday, and then Grandma arrived on Wednesday for a week. Grandma's visits are always special. We also got to spend an evening with Jeff, Annie, Bradley, Brian, and Kevin Lewis.
Matthew and Jessica both made swim champs in all 3 of their individual events. Matthew – 25 Free, 25 Fly, 100 IM; Jessica – 25 free, 25 breast, and 25 back. They got to swim in both team relays as well. These were 2 very long days, but very exciting. Grandma was with us to enjoy and be proud! During the swim meet, Jacob pitched a complete game to beat Deer Park in the baseball playoffs. Huge victory! I had a friend texting me the entire game. It is tough not to be in 2 places at once.

We finished the swim season with the annual swim awards banquet. This one was sad as Coach Soozie officially announced her retirement. Soozie taught all 3 of my kids to swim, but more importantly, she taught them to always give their best effort. Rather than to concentrate on winning, she encouraged them to concentrate on getting better as an individuals. The coaches awarded Matthew the 10 & under "coaches award" for always working hard, offering to help in any way, and always be so positive and smiling. Coach Soozie surprised us as well by presenting me with a basket of Cincinnati goodies. She thanked us for coming home to swim this summer. Finally, a 10 year old girl, Kennedy, gave Matthew the "Tony the Tiger Shark" award. This is handed down each year by the previous year's recipient. Kennedy said, "I thought about it, and asked all my friends. We all agreed to give this award to Matthew because he is always cheering all of us on." I had big tears once again. It was a very emotional night. I was very proud, sad, and happy.
On Friday, we moved out of Martha’s place and watched Jacob's team win the semi-final game. His friend Alex pitched a great game, but when his elbow hurt, Jacob came in to close out the final inning. We stayed with our friends, the Powers, for one night (summer stop #8). Val and I stayed up talking until 2am. The hours went by quickly. Then, we had one more night at the rental house. The AC did not work, so we pulled the mattresses together in the family room and borrowed some fans. It was a little bit like camping – just the four of us. Friends offered us their homes, but with Jacob leaving on Sunday for a service trip, I wanted to have some time just the kids and me.

On Sunday, July 17, we moved over to the Bortz’s beautiful home for our final week in Cincinnati. (Summer stop #9). Jacob’s baseball team lost in the regional championship on Sunday. While disappointing, I think this was an amazing accomplishment given the number of players out for vacation, as well as a pitcher injuries.

Jacob left that night for the Son Rise Mission trip to New Orleans. His bus broke down on the way home, so he arrived about 20 hours later than expected the following Saturday. However, he had an amazing week of devotion, prayer, friendship, and service. We are thankful for this opportunity. While he was gone, Matthew, Jessica, and I had a fun week of visiting with friends, playing, and shopping.
June and July were a whirlwind of activity – swim meets, sleepovers, baseball games, sleepovers, gymnastics, sleepovers, doctor visits, sleepovers! I did not actually sleep for a few weeks. I think it was a combination of jet lag and adrenaline.

On Tuesday, July 26, the time had come to say goodbye once more. There were definitely some tears, but this summer, it was a little easier. We know that time goes quickly and that our friends will still be here next summer. We also now know what to expect in Japan – our friends, our apartment, our school. The tough question, though, was … would all of our luggage fit in the rental Traverse??? Our bags doubled while shopping in the US! We were able to squeeze the bags in and drove to St. Louis to stay with Joe, Linda, Patrick, Daniel, and Grandma for one evening. (Summer stop #10). It was nice to get to celebrate Patricks’ 21st birthday!

We left early on Wednesday morning to fly from St. Louis to Minneapolis to Seattle where we met Dad. He rented a truck so that our luggage would fit! We were very excited to finally get to visit our good friends the Montgomerys. (Summer stop #11). They moved from Cincinnati to Seattle 5 years ago. We joked that our family had to move to Japan to get to visit in Seattle. What a beautiful city! We saw several lakes and mountains, including Mount Ranier, and lovely water falls. We went up in the Space Needle, had fish and chips, took a ferry ride, and walked around Pike’s Place. We were also happy to be at Safeco Field to cheer the Mariners to victory. More importantly, we got to spend time with friends. Paul and Tricia are wonderful friends and wonderful hosts. Our children got along great and had a fun visit. We spent 7 weeks and 5 days in the US, and this was the perfect way to complete our summer adventures.

We will be forever grateful to all of our family and friends who helped to make the summer such a memorable one.

Peace and Love,
Tina

2011 Summer Home Leave Part 1

Fun in the USA - June 2011
After Matthew finished his final performance in the 4th grade play on June 8, we shared hugs and goodbyes and headed to catch the bus to the airport. We had booked this flight last November in order to use upgrades and Skymiles points to be able to fly business class. This is quite a treat! We flew from Osaka to Seattle to Minneapolis to St. Louis. We got our rental (Chevy Traverse) and headed to Phillip’s brother David’s house. (Summer stop #1). Total travel time? 23 hours. The kids did great. Everyone got enough sleep to hang out with David, Jane, Conrad, and Annie for a couple of hours before going to bed at 1am! We had pizza and strawberries. Yum! We laughed that the bowl of strawberries would have cost us $30 in Japan!
On Thursday, we bought Jacob new baseball cleats at Dicks Sporting Goods and drove to Farmington to stay at Grandma’s house for a couple of days. (Summer stop #2). I was very excited to go to Walmart! ☺
On Saturday, we drove to Phillip’s brother Joe’s lake house. (Summer stop #3). Linda was a wonderful host as always. It was so nice to just hang out there and catch up with family (Linda, Uncle Jim, Aunt Helen, Aunt Shirley, cousins Keegan and Jack, and of course Grandma!). We rode in the boat and did some tubing. Matthew even caught his first fish.
Jessica with big cousin Daniel
                                             Jacob and Daniel were pretty crazy on those tubes!

Sunday morning came with a lot of excitement. We packed up the Traverse and headed to Cincinnati. First stop – the Milford Skyline! We were so excited to see “Welcome Maloney Family” on the sign and to see friends there waiting for us. Immediately, the kids went home with friends, so I hit Walmart and Target to find a cell phone.
                                             Matthew was happy to see his best buddy Braden.

We stayed at the Vianello’s rental house for a few days. (Summer stop #4). Friends had gotten us mattresses, linens, kitchen items… there was even a bottle of wine in the fridge! Seeing what our friends had done really brought tears to my eyes.

We hit the ground running on Monday. I drove Jacob to St. Xavier HS football camp. I drove back to take Jessica to swim team. Matthew went with a friend to swim team a little earlier. The warm reception by friends and the swim team coaches was just so sweet. Phillip arrived on Monday. That night, Jacob pitched in his first baseball game back with the Grizzlies. He did awesome! The smile on Jacob’s face as he walked off the mound at the end of the first inning will be etched in my mind forever. I think he was so happy to be back with his Cincy friends, and I also think he was relieved to have that first successful inning behind him. He had a great game, got the win, and the fun had begun!

Matthew finished out the week at football camp with Jacob. They loved it! I think they both enjoyed being back on the football field again. On Friday, Jacob’s team lost in the final game of their tournament. Matthew won the St X Bomber award for always giving his best effort and for being a great teammate and competitor. He raced his player coach Nate, a St X senior, every day after camp. I got a great picture on Friday.
We started all of the doctor, dentist, orthodontist, etc visits. Amazingly, on Wednesday, June 15, we ran into a friend Holly at the orthodontist. She invited us to stay at her home for 5 days since her family had to go out of town unexpectedly. We accepted! (Summer stop #5). Their house is just spectacular complete with a great game room in the basement. We had a blast and are so appreciative of their generosity.
On Friday night, we had dinner and stayed with our dear friends the Petermans. (Summer stop #6). Phillip returned to Japan on Saturday, June 18.

We went back to the Vianello house until June 24 when we moved to Martha’s house. (Summer stop #7). Martha is the mother of a good friend of ours and offered us the opportunity to stay at her house for 3 weeks while she was gone. It was nice to be settled for a few weeks. More summer leave adventure to come in the next blog ...

Peace and Love,
Tina

Sayonara friends - May 2011

We have discovered that the life of an expat is quite an emotional roller coaster. We all cried last summer as we told our family and friends goodbye before leaving Cincinnati. We cried for a while after arriving in Kobe because we missed our family and friends, our home, football, reading signs in English, …. Our life in the US. Then, we started making friends, enjoying the Canadian Academy school and the adventures that we were experiencing while living in Japan. However, May arrived. The tears began again as we had to say goodbye to friends who were leaving their expat assignments in Japan either to go on to new assignments or to return home. There were parties, lunches, happy hours, Sayonara dolls to sign. This time, we were saying goodbye to folks that we may never see again. The bonds you form here are very strong as we are instant family, and we can stay in touch via facebook. Yet, the reality is that everyone moves on with his/her new lives, new jobs, new friends and the miles apart are real. So, yes, May and early June were pretty sad. Yet, we were also happy to be heading home to Cincinnati for 6 weeks! Did I mention the emotional roller coaster? One thing I have noticed as an expat (and have discussed with many of the expat moms) is that the “highs” are higher and the “lows “are lower than ever before. I am not sure why. Maybe we tend to wear our hearts on our sleeves a little more being so far away from home.

                                    Temple Sale and margaritas

                                        Sayonara party at Macsys
In addition to all of the goodbyes, we had some fun. I got to go to Fushimi Inari with some friends. Fushimi Inari Taisha is the head shrine of Inari, located in Kyoto. The shrine sits at the base of a mountain also named Inari, and includes trails up the mountain to many smaller shrines. Since in early Japan Inari was seen as the patron of business, each of the Torii is donated by a Japanese business. Importantly, Inari is the god of rice. Merchants worship Inari for wealth. As for the 6 of us, well, we just enjoyed the beauty of walking through the torii gates up the mountain path. We were also very popular with the Japanese middle school students! They enjoyed practicing their English skills on us, so we were stopped several times for interviews and pictures. :)

Jessica finally got into a gymnastics program on the Island. We had been told last fall that there were no openings for her age group. So, with April as the start of the Japanese school year, the gymnastics school had try outs. We got Jessica all signed up, and the big bonus is that she gets to participate in the group with her 9 year old friend Isabella. The bonus for me is that I get to catch up with my friend (and Isabella’s mom) Cassia every Tuesday night!

Matthew and Jessica performed in the piano recital organized by their piano teacher Otake-san. They both played great and looked just gorgeous!

On the opposite end of gorgeous, however, was Matthew’s role as the Trunchbull in the 4th grade play! The play consisted of scenes from different Raoul Dahl’s books, including Matilda, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, George and the Marvelous Medicine, etc. Matthew had a great British accent and did an awesome job as mean principal Trunchbull from Matilda. He even walked along the front row of the audience of other students, pointing and saying things like “You, grow up faster!, You, detention!” I think Matthew had a lot of fun being in character! ☺

                                Matthew as Trunchbull
Jacob concluded his first year of middle school sports with volleyball. The Canadian Academy has finished first in its league in baseball, basketball, and soccer. They did not do so well in the volleyball tournament. Yet, Jacob really enjoyed learning a new sport and, of course, hanging out with his middle school friends. All 3 kids finished the school year with terrific report cards, good friends, and a whole lot of memories!

            Jessica and Mrs. Vest (1st grade teacher)
                Matthew and Mr. Wilson (4th grade teacher)

Peace, Love, and Sayonara Japan until August!
Tina